![]() ![]() The silent treatment will make him wonder what YOU’RE thinking. If he tries to come back again (which he mostly likely will at some point) then you can smack the ball straight in his face. But if you say nothing, then it remains firmly in your hands. If you reply to his messages, then you’re passing the control straight back to him. The silent treatment means the ball is left in your court. Guys know that girls love to rant and rave after a relationship ends, and if he knows you’re a culprit of that from previous arguments then why not make him squirm with confusion by not replying? 3. The silent treatment catches guys off-guard. When you give someone the silent treatment, you are telling them that you have no more words to say to them – you’ve said them all. My Dad once told me, “Sometimes it’s better to say nothing and just remain in a dignified silence.” And he’s right. Recently, a guy I would have done anything for let me down for a second time this year but when he sent me a half-hearted apology via text (though my immediate reaction was to send a reply) I thought about it…and then changed my mind and here’s why: 1. The silent treatment says a lot without saying anything. ![]() After a breakup, we’re usually tearing ourselves apart because we’re sending them those essay-long texts that cover every inch of our emotions – but they’re not replying to them! The difference between girls and guys is that while we love to get all of our feelings out, they prefer to bottle them up. If there’s something I have learned from relationships’ past, it’s this: silence works a treat (hence the term silent treatment) when you are truly done with someone.
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